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5 Times!

2 years 11 months.

My heart aches just as much now as it did at 2 months and 11 days.

My therapist told me to decide on a date that I would quit grieving my son, and then hold myself to it. She said she had to do that when her daughter died of cancer… so I should do it too.

I haven’t gone back to her.

You see, losing your child to cancer is MUCH different than losing one to murder!! And even more complicated when you add that the murder is unsolved!!

Losing a child to cancer means you had time to understand what was going to kill your child. And all the same, I would never ask you to “get over” the loss of your child.

I spoke to my perfectly healthy son at 5:30pm. I told him I loved him. Then at 2:00am, I was beckoned to his room only to find him bleeding to death!!

And 2 years and 11 months later, I still have NO answers.

And my son didn’t “just die”. He died 5 times!!
Once in my arms.
Once in the ambulance.
Once in the ER.
Once in the ICU.
Then finally he died the 5th time of a stroke.
And he couldn’t be revived.

Some son of a bitch murdered my son 5 TIMES!!

Next month we will have the 3 year memorial vigil for his murder.

We will be handing out fliers to the cars stopped at the stoplights between QT and Crackerneck during the vigil. We will be covering this area because that’s where we believe he was attacked. If you would like to help pass out fliers, you are more than welcome to join us.

SOMEONE needs to stand up and tell what they know about my son’s murder!!

And as for my Therapist… If you’re reading this,

YOU’RE FIRED!

Gwen Carver

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